Who says ex-lovers can’t be the best of friends? :)

Posted: August 8, 2012 in Random

I was struck by my auntie’s question after dinner about what happened today. 

One of my best friends (I prefer him not to call him ex) asked me if how are we in here. I did the same thing since nasa Manila siya and bumaha din sa kanila sa Batangas before. Glad they were okay. Ayun, kwentuhan lang. To make the story short, I was talking to him through phone when tita entered the room. Of course, he was aware that tita was there and ayun, kinamusta nya. Shempre, na-shock si tita. I can see it in her eyes. Malamang, ex ko yun and naguusap kami which everyone thinks na unusual. Though I think she knows naman na okay talaga kami and naguusap parin kahit di madalas. 

The conversation wasn’t that long. Bumaba narin ako. Tita didn’t asked me about that this morning, until after dinner.

Tita: Bakit napatawag sayo si J?

Me: Wala lang. Kamustahan. Haha. Confidant ako nun eh.

Tita: Ahh, akala ko bumabalik

Me: Haaa? NOOOO! Haha. Ang tagal na eh. Best friends lang talaga kami.

Tita: Ah, may girlfriend na siya?

Me: Oo ah. Matagal na kaya. Haha.

Tita: At least okay kayo. Okay din kasi paghihiwalay nyo no? Yung iba kasi eh, pag nagbreak, wala na. Di mo na magawang maging kaibigan.

Me: Oo nga po. Matino kasi kami. Hahaha. Walang bitterness.

 

I know some people may think na this isn’t possible, na plastikan lang or may something pa. Pero hindi talaga, matagal ng tapos at naayos na lahat samin. We’re super okay gaya lang ng dati nung magkabarkad kami. That’s what you get when your relationship started with friendship. Maghiwalay man kayo, the friendship still remains. Sobrang dami lang naming napagdaanan, okay parin lahat. I just got lucky, too, kasi sobrang mabait talaga ‘tong taong tao (kahit madalas pasaway). He respects anyone he is with and he’s someone you’ll treasure your friendship with.

Kaya, who says ex-lovers can’t be the best of friends?

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